After the death of Sarah, Isaac, her son, was lonely. Because he was old enough to marry, Abraham looked for a wife for him. In those countries the parents have always chosen the wives for their sons, and husbands for their daughters. Abraham did not wish Isaac to marry any woman of the people in the land where he was living, for they were all worshipers of idols, and would not teach their children the ways of the Lord. For the same reason, Abraham did not settle in one place, and build for himself and his people a city.
Remember that when Abraham made his long journey to the land of Canaan (in lesson 5), he stayed for a time at a place called Haran, in Mesopotamia, between the two rivers Tigris and Euphrates, far to the northeast of Canaan. When Abraham left Haran to go to Canaan, his brother Nahor and his family stayed in Haran. They worshiped the Lord, as Abraham and his family did. Abraham thought that it would be well to find among them a wife for his son Isaac.
Abraham could not leave his own land of Canaan and go to Haran in Mesopotamia to find a wife for his son Isaac. So he called his chief servant, Eliezer, the man whom he trusted, who cared for all his flocks and cattle, and who ruled over his other servants, and sent him to Haran to find a wife for his son Isaac.
The servant took ten camels, and many presents and went on a long journey. At last he came to the city of Haran, where the family of Nahor, the brother of Abraham, was living. At the well, just outside of the city, at the time of evening, he made his camels kneel down. Then the servant prayed to the Lord, "If I ask a young woman for a drink, and she says she will not only give me a drink, but my camels, too - let that be the woman for Isaac."
Just as the servant was praying, a beautiful young woman came to the well, with her pitcher upon her shoulder. As she drew the water and filled her pitcher, the servant came up and bowed to her, and said, "Will you kindly give me a drink of water from your pitcher?"
She said, "Drink, my lord," and she held her pitcher for him to drink. Then she said, "I will draw some water for your camels also to drink."
She emptied her pitcher into the trough by the well, and drew more water, until she had given drink to all the camels.
The servant of Abraham looked at her, and wondered whether she might be the right woman for Isaac to marry. He said to her, "Will you tell me your name, young lady, and whose daughter you are? And do you suppose that I could find a place to stay at your father's house?" Then her gave her a gold ring and gold bracelets for her wrists.
The beautiful young woman said, "My name is Rebekah; and my father is Bethuel, who is the son of Nahor. You can come right to our house. We have room for you, and a place and food for your camels."
Then the man bowed his head and thanked God, for he saw that his prayer was answered, since this kind and lovely young woman was a cousin to Isaac, his master's son. He told Rebekah that he was the servant of Abraham, who was so near a relative to her own family.
Then Rebekah ran home and told her parents about the stranger, and showed them the presents that he had given to her. Her brother Laban went out to the man, and brought him into the house, and found a place for his camels. They washed his feet, for that was the custom of the land, where people did not wear shoes, only sandals. They set the table for a supper, and asked him to sit down and eat with them. But the man said, "I will not eat until I have told my errand."
After this he told them all about Abraham's riches: and how Abraham had sent him to Haran to find a wife for Isaac, his son; how he had met Rebekah, and felt sure that Rebekah was the one whom the Lord would choose for Isaac's wife. Then he asked that they would give him Rebekah to be taken home to be married to Isaac.
When he had told his errand, Laban, Rebekah's brother, and Bethuel, her father, said, "This comes from the Lord; it is his will; and it is not for us to oppose it. Here is Rebekah; take her, and let her be the wife of your master's son, for the Lord has shown it to be his will."
Then Abraham's servant gave rich presents to Rebekah, and to her mother, and her brother Laban. That night they had a feast, with great joy. The next morning Abraham's servant said, "Now I must go home to my master." But they said, "Oh, not so soon! Let Rebekah stay with us for a few days, ten days at least, before she goes away from home."
The servant said to them, "Do not hinder me; since God has given me what I came for, I must go back to my master."
They called Rebekah, and asked her, "Will you go with this man?"
She answered, "I will go."
So the servant of Abraham went away, and took with him Rebekah, with good wishes and blessings, and prayers, from everyone in her father's house. After a long journey, they came to the place where Abraham and Isaac were living. When Isaac saw Rebekah, he loved her. She became his wife, and they were faithful to each other as long as they both lived.
Afterward Abraham, great and good man that he was, died, almost a hundred and eighty years old. Isaac and Ishmael buried Abraham in the cave where Abraham had buried Sarah at Hebron. Then Isaac became the owner of all the riches of Abraham, his tents, and flocks of sheep, and herds of cattle, and camels, and servants. Isaac was a peaceful, quiet man. He did not move his tents often, as his father had done, but stayed in one place nearly all his life.
1. Why didn't Abraham want Isaac to marry any of the women who from the land they lived in?
2. To what place did Abraham send his servant, Eliezer, to find a wife for Isaac?
3. Eliezer prayed for a sign so that he would know what young woman was right for Isaac. What was the sign?
4a. Rebekah's family knew it was God's will for her to marry Isaac. Why do you think they wanted her to stay for ten more days before she left?
b. What did Eliezer say about this?
4. How did Isaac feel when he saw Rebekah?
Story taken from "Hurlbut's Story of the Bible," copyright 1904. Illustrations are from Sweet Publishing under the Creative Commons Attribution-Share Alike 3.0 Unported license.